I used to think that rejection was something bad
That is was directed to me personnally
Until I realised that it was a blessing
By analyzing everything I was going through
I had to dive into myself
and invoke that part of me that felt "abandoned"
I looked at her with love, and allowed her to fully exist before releasing her,
to free myself from her
As soon as we take responsibility for our wounded parts, the relationship towards the rejection of others is no longer the same
Because what often makes us suffer is our interpretation of the situation
From this perspective, we can see that rejection is never a tragic thing
Yet, it's painful and it hurts when we are faced with clumsy people
But sometimes,
People are not ready
People are afraid
People don't have enough courage to confront us
and it’s okey, it doesn’t make them bad
What is needed in those kind of situations wether it's professionnal, friendly or romantic relationships :
is to leave
Because we are not welcomed for what we really are
Shouldn't we stop for a moment and say to them : thank you ?
Thank you for making a room for other energies, experiences and people
So,
Don’t let painful experiences harden your heart
Don't let doubt gnaw at you
Keep being that gentle, caring and loving person
Keep showing your vulnerabilities for those who cares
because there is so much magic when revealing what makes you more « human »,
what makes more « you » to the ones who deserve it
Please promise me to remember that,
You are never too much or not enough for the right ones
You are never scary by reclaiming what you seek
You are only scaring the wrong ones
Let go of what needs to go but keep in mind that
those people were in your life to teach you something about yourself and then leave
There is no coincidence you know, there are only encounters
With love
Your Salma
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